My Summer Long Problem

So I got a question for ya'll ready? Have you guys ever made a decision or been put in a situation that is not to your liking? It could be anything from sports, school, relationships, family, or even work. Well if you are really close to me then its no secret that I have been battling this problem about all summer long. Its kind of been almost like a soap opera or like a reality show that I'm staring in, and to my displeasure it may be coming to an end and I feel like I lost. Its a weird situation because the other person involved claims she feels the same way. To me it don't make sense because this has been going on for about 2 and a half months already, and we both think about each other like 30 times a day. Even the most stupid and most random things remind us of each other. It seems like if you've been living in a difficult situation for 2 and half months and the ball was in your court you would change your situation right? I mean its hard living wondering what could of been? It basically feels like the Ryan Leslie song "How it was supposed to be" featuring Jadakiss. Its funny how music can relate to any situation. Well I don't even know if she would read this and that's not the point. The point is how come people are scared to go outside their comfort zone and try something new especially when they are sure no bad will come out of the situation and they would feel 100% happier than they do now. I think its because we as humans are scared of trying new things and only want to stick to what you know. I say FUCK THAT you only live once and I don't know about ya'll but I don't wanna regret anything so I try new things because who knows when something so good will be put in your hands again because passing up on it now maybe the biggest mistake of your life!!!