Monday, September 21, 2009

Like Mother, Like Son?

How do you guys feel when you see one of your parents getting into an argument/fight with someone else? Well I get really tense and upset. It's not because I fear confrontation, but it is because I just hate seeing someone talking disrespectful to one of my parents. The reason for this blog is because I was just put into this situation.

So as I was walking in my door today coming home from school I saw my mom walking my dog up the stairs and then all of a sudden my cousins (either his mom, or my aunt, owns the house) fiancé (she is I hate using this word but a "bitch") who was also walking her dog coming inside at the same time. I went upstairs then I heard them arguing about something to do with a light. I knew from the start this was going to a bad thing and I wanted no part of it. First off, it really upsets me when I see my mom fighting with someone, especially with family (whether I like them or not). Anyway the fight continued for about 15 minutes, and it seemed like they started arguing about how we were noisy. The whole time it reminded me about my old apartment and how my old landlord would always try and strong arm us (if that's the right saying) anyway he always tried to take advantage of my mom and my family, talking about how we are too loud or about rent, it was always something. I even remember one day when we were moving out he was trying to say we still owed him money and he wanted to talk to my mom 1 on 1 but my mom did not want that to happen because she would feel like she was being "bullied" and she would feel a lot better if I came. She claimed she doesn't feel nervous and she feels a lot more confident when I am beside her. This makes me feel real good knowing that my confidence can be contagious to someone else. The end result of that was we won. This time I don't know what is going to happen because the landlords are my aunt and cousin so my aunt will have the last say, not to mention she and my mom don't see eye to eye on some issues (but that's a different entry).

Seeing my mom argue always fuels me up because this is the woman that got me in the position I am in. She is literally everything to me and whenever I see her upset or fighting/arguing with someone it always gets to me. In my eyes she can never be wrong. It's almost like the way a mother feels about a son, a mother will claim her son is innocent even if the son is being accused of murder and she saw him do it lol. I guess its just the relationship you have with your mom or father or even guardian for that matter that will make you feel the way you feel sometimes.

Bottom line is that when I saw my mom fighting I was pumped/nervous I did not want the issue to get any bigger than it already was and no matter what happened I had my moms back the whole time.

I was wondering do you guys ever feel this way when you see someone you love in an altercation. I think its a true test of character and shows how much you love someone. I really had to write about this because it was on my mind since I got home. I just wanna say I LOVE YOU MOM and WE ARE GONNA MAKE IT I PROMISE!!!!

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